Look, let me first be very clear that I do not hate Christmas. I enjoy the family time, giving and receiving gifts, and general positive atmosphere that it creates. I’m not by any means a Grinch or Scrooge, or whoever other curmudgeon associated with Christmas hate.
Working in retail at Christmas is just… pic.twitter.com/KkxcyFb7XW
— Clare (@_clarebear_82) November 21, 2023
That being said, every year I can’t help but think that the Christmas hoopla takes up way too much of our time. I’m writing this on November 24th, a month before Christmas, and it already seems like Christmas hype has been going on for several weeks. Why do you think this is?
I think the main reason is that we seem to be conditioned by retail stores to think this way. By mid October, all you see in grocery and retail stores is hype around Halloween. This at least makes some sense, but what happens on November 1st is pretty crazy. Stores immediately pivot to Christmas, without even the slightest buffer in between. That means that for all of November and most of December, it’s Christmas and Christmas only. You realize that this translates to 15% of the entire year right? If you lived until 80 years old, 12 years of your life would be amidst the Christmas hype train!
Call me crazy, but I don’t care about Christmas that much. I think December 15th is a good time to maybe start thinking about Christmas. 10 full days of looking forward to it seems plenty. I often wonder why people enjoy looking forward to holidays so much. Is it due to lack of other interests or hobbies? Or is there something they truly love about them?
Despite what I said above, I might be a bit more involved with Christmas this year. My girlfriend is a huge fan of the Christmas season, and we decided that it would be fun to make customized baseball card advent calendars for each other this year. I haven’t had an advent calendar since I was a kid, but this does seem like a lot of fun. On top of this, we plan on setting up a little tree in my apartment, since it will be our first together. Would I have done this stuff on my own? No, of course not. But it does seem like it could be fun to do together.
So hey, I may be warming up to Christmas fever a little bit, and perhaps that will continue when I have kids of my own. All I ask is to pump the brakes as to when we start getting excited for it, alright?