I think at one point everyone questions their career direction, if it was the right decision to work a fairly secure job or to take a risk and bet on yourself. I won’t lie, it’s really scary to think about risking security for a chance at achieving something a bit more fulfilling, especially if it is only for a brief moment. But if you had to choose between a life where you wake up every day wondering, or living a life where you at least know the answer, isn’t it worth give it a shot? Whether it is about your love life, career choices, or just goals you want to accomplish, it’s important to see that you’re worth putting the effort in and pursue those dreams. Of course I’m not saying that you need to drop everything immediately, it is worth to calculate risk and make plans accordingly. Here are the steps that I’m taking, and perhaps it may inspire you to start betting on yourself in the near future!
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My OBSESSION with revenge stories
It may be lucky for my enemies, but I’m not a very vengeful person. Don’t get me wrong, I can be petty, spiteful even, but I’ve never gone out of my way to get my revenge on anyone. That being said I love revenge stories, especially if the main character really screws over everyone that wronged them. There is something that’s so cathartic about it and it just keeps me wanting more. Now you may have your own personal genres that you enjoy when it comes to revenge stories. I find that I enjoy revenge stories with a female lead, and her scumbag partner cheats on her for his really b*tchy ex, her step-sister, or even her backstabbing best friend. It’s all good because the female lead will almost always end up with someone significantly richer and better looking than her scumbag ex. Now, that’s the base for most of the stories I enjoy, but there are a several split ups so I’m not completely reading or watching the same thing over and over again.
Is this “WOKE” or are you just ignorant?
I have arguably been an internet addict since my childhood. Growing up on platforms like Neopets, and the early days of YouTube, to the doom scrolling on X and the dramatic clout chasing on TikTok. It is fair to say that there are multiple things that have changed over the years. One thing that half of the internet seems to be obsessed with is the idea of “woke-ism” and how the world is no longer “normal” and catering to the “crazies“. To me the claims feel nonsensical and is just people feeling more and more comfortable with their ignorance. The beliefs that there is no other perspective is correct unless it aligns with your own is deeply troubling in a world that is becoming more connected day-by-day.
She can sing, she can dance, she’s an instrument?
Vocaloid took the world by storm during the late 2000’s with the introduction of Crypton Future Media‘s Vocaloid2, Hatsune Miku. Today this virtual idol does concerts all over the world and not only inspired many musicians to start their journey, but jump started many careers. Back when I was in high school and early university years, I was obsessed with the songs that producers made with her voice, and still follow a few of them to this day. With the influence that this musical software has on the industry as a whole, you definitely will feel as though you were sleeping under a rock if you never heard of Vocaloid, let alone Hatsune Miku.
How I’m surviving my LDR
LDR, or long distance relationships, tend to have a negative stigma, but not without reason. There is often a physical disconnect, ample of opportunities for miscommunication or betrayals, one of you have to decide who is willing to uproot their life to move, and sometimes even language barriers. Personally I was in the camp of that I would never get into a LDR, let alone with someone who is technically in a different country, but life has a funny way of surprising you. My fiancé is a born and raised New Yorker, and I’m a born and raised Richmond-er (?), and our meeting was definitely nothing but a stroke of luck. And even then, the likely chance of us getting together was very low, mostly due to our concerns of misreading each other’s feelings and attachments to each other. Regardless of the odds, we managed to push through those anxieties and are happily engaged with plans to tie the knot in 2025, fingers crossed. But how did we avoid being part of the 42% of couples that fail a LDR? Admittedly a lot of it come down to each individual’s character, personality, and needs, but these are some of the things we do to stay connected.
What are Vtubers and why is it a thing?
If you aren’t into the world of content creation, Japanese media/idol culture, or watching streamers, you may have never heard of the the term “VTuber”. Simply put they are content creators that choose to puppet a virtual avatar to stream or entertain their audiences instead of showing their faces and bodies to the masses. Often times these creators are confused as AI animated characters that interact with people, however, aside from some exceptions, that couldn’t be further from the truth. Just like the top streamers and creators we see online, these are just masks that some of them wear to present as a character that is separate from who they may be in their personal life. Regardless if they chose to do so for aesthetic reasons, as creative outlets, or for privacy reasons, it certainly doesn’t stop the curiosity surrounding this sub-genre of content creation.
3 dating advice that MEN ignore
Dating sucks, and as someone that has primarily dated men in the lower mainland until I met my long distance fiancé on Twitch, it’s extremely frustrating to think about the people I used to meet. And perhaps it’s because I’ve had my share of being pursued or pursuing potential partners, there are times when plenty of my straight male friends and acquaintances approach me for advice. From time to time I wonder why my male friends ask me, not because I don’t care about their happiness, it is because it is far too often that it goes on deaf ears. So, to put myself on the hot seat, it will be up to you to see if I give either terrible advice or the people I provide advice to didn’t want so much as advice as they wanted validation. You be the judge!
An ipulsive fluffy purchase
Close you eyes and image this, you moved to a foreign country for your significant other, only for them to break up with you 2 months later. You wish you could go back home for the holidays, but the country you’re in doesn’t follow typical western holiday schedules and therefore you are required to be in the office during those days. You haven’t really made that many friends due to anxiety and/or language barriers. What do you do on a cold and lonely holiday season? I can tell you what I did, I watched a lot of puppy videos. But not just any kind of puppy video, “teacup” Pomeranian puppy videos. I fell hard for the cute, fluffy balls with eyes, their little bean toes, those little wiggles. On a normal day I would have a will of steel, my heart wouldn’t be swayed and I wouldn’t dare to get a puppy, let alone buy one from a pet store, but they got me. I started googling “teacup” Pomeranians, and as fate would have it, they were commonly sold in the country I happened to live in. I happened to stumble upon the Instagram account that specialized in selling smaller sized dogs, and that’s where I managed to meet him, my first fur baby and biggest headache, Coffee.
How a “WAIFU” game got me a husband
Ok, so he isn’t quite my husband yet, that’s something that we’re working on for 2025, but the statement still stands. If I never played this game I would have never met my husband-to-be. Despite our origins being quite “cringe” by modern standards, it almost seems fitting this is how we would meet each other in a rather comical way.
So first what is a “waifu” game for people that actually go outside and aren’t glued to their phone screens? Typically these games contain a wide variety of female characters, often in fan service like outfits and poses, targeting mostly straight men with their provocative design. Over the years games exploited the female form to best appeal to their core audiences since sex sells and it sells especially well when you can collect them. With the boom of gacha game, mobile game developers take advantage of the attractive designs to rake in 10’s of thousands, to even millions, of dollars a year. Despite the problematic aspects of the character designs, there are plenty of standouts with fun gameplay and world building. Admittedly, I initially chose to play the game for the illustrations, but I stuck around because the story was very deep and has made me tear up every so often with the tragic backstory they revealed. Also it was released on my birthday, I promise this will be relevant.
An Interview with Emily – Spend a Day with BCIT
Figuring out the direction you want to go for your post secondary education is hard. Perhaps you have a couple of careers or programs you have been mulling over, nothing concrete. Sometimes it helps to hear and see what a day would be like if you were a student on campus, what to expect and activities there are to do. Luckily BCIT has a program called Spend a Day where you can have your own personalized tour of our campus with a student, such as myself. I had the honor of hosting our first guest, Emily, for her Spend a Day showing her around the media building and introducing to the Radio Arts and Entertainment program. Better understand why she decided to contact us and interest in our program we sat down and had a short interview.
But before we jump into the interview, if you missed out on what we did for Emily’s Spend a Day, you can check it out HERE, as well as see some student project features!
Photography by Timothy Takemoto
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