Flatter becoming a parent is hard, their other job, but especially becoming a mother. Mother is when we are born the first person to see, and she is all life you can lay on for everything because in their eyes, no matter how old you are, you will always be a child for them.

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Becoming a parent is hard, but especially becoming a mother. Every people think about their mother. They can do anything for kids; they can become superheroes because they can proctor they are kids and make everything possible. In this episode, I have a friend, and at the same time, she is my old classmate from when we study at BCIT ISEP for the language class, and she is from Korea. Her name is Jina, and now she become a mother. In this section, she tells me about her giving birth to her baby in Canada because she is the only one of all her friend’s members is giving birth in Canada.

She says when she finds out she is pregnant around two weeks already, she is shocked at the same time because she didn’t know she was pregnant. At the same time, she is not ready for this time to come, so she gets nervous and stressed when she finds out she got pregnant.

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Also, she talks about the difference between giving birth in Canada and getting parturition in Korea because she says in Korea, after getting an accouchement, people take care of her, and she can stay in the hospital a little longer. After all, it has a nurse to take care of the baby and the mother too, and the nurse will teach the father and mother how to change the diapers, so both parents can learn how to do it by themself at home.

In this part, she told me she has a hard time doing this because, in Canada, they don’t teach parents to do this, so her husband and herself have a hard time taking care of the baby.

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But after she tries her best to take care of the baby and her husband too, she asks her other family member to come to Canada to help her to take care of the baby sometimes because if nobody helps them, they have more stress to take care of the baby by themself.

After all, becoming a parent is not easy because you need to be patient with the kids, spend time with them, and teach them what is good and what is not. I want to thank all the mothers and fathers for always being there when I needed you. We appreciate all you’ve done for me and the sacrifices you’ve made to be a great parent. 

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